Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Camping 2013 – NOT quite what we expected…….



 
Every spring break, a number of families from the missionary community get together for a few days to camp.  This year was no different and we were looking forward to it for a several reasons –

1      It is the boys’ senior year so they were excited for the BIG final trip – they were going to take senior pictures at the falls where we have camped for the past 7 years.

2    We were going to get to introduce Curtis (our nursing intern) and Elisabeth (Hannah’s tutor) to the fun of the event.

3     I was tired emotionally and physical and was looking forward to hanging out with friends for a few days.

We took off early on Monday morning – heading about 9 hours away to our friends house.  They are missionaries closest to the falls so we had made “reservations” for the 7 of us at their house the night before – knowing that there would be LOTS of people there.  JD and Emily are great people to be around – easy to talk to and flexible and never make you feel like an imposition.    After camping, we were headed to CKY.  When we go to CKY, we are usually packed!  And when we go camping, we are also always packed.  So with going camping and then to CKY, it was not pretty – not to mention having 2 extra people.  Our truck was pack to the hilt with people and gear – we were stuffed in like sardines!

We arrived to find a house full of people.  We jumped in and started visiting and helping with supper.  There was another group of people who were spending the night about an hour away and planned to meet us at the falls by around 8 am.

After supper, JD called everyone into the living room to deliver some bad news.  An hour or 2 before, a group of teens from the local youth group had gone out to the falls to celebrate Easter and one of the teen leaders had jumped in the water and never surfaced.  They had not yet recovered the body.  

(Here is an interesting side note – Africans are usually cautious about delivering bad news, so they try to do it gently.  Here is how they broke the news to the father of the young man who drowned.  Now remember, he had NO idea that there was a problem – just that the kids were out there swimming (sadly, that afternoon, when the kids wanted to go, the father begged them not to, saying, I think something bad is going to happen – please don’t go.).  Anyway, he gets a phone call that says “We have nothing to tell you” and then the person hung up.  Second phone call “we have nothing good to tell you” and another hang up.  Third phone call “David went in the water and we can’t see him – we don’t know if he is walking up in the woods or where he is.”  Finally they broke the news that he went under the water and never surfaced.)

It was dark by this time.  JD, Curtis, and one of the other young men went out to see if they could help with the search.  They got there around 11 pm, climbed down the cliff, and waded in the water but could not find anything (everyone else was terrified to go in the water, being sure that the demons in the water had grabbed the young man and were holding him.)  The area where he drowned is at the base of a big waterfall.  It is where we spend most of our time swimming when we are there – and the kids jump off the cliffs into the water. Apparently the rush of the water has carved a large cavern under the rocks – big enough to trap a body.  And if you jump in near the falls and get caught by the current, you cannot get out.  They were not able to find anything and came home.

While they were at the falls searching, Emily and I began the process of trying to reach the other missionaries at the other stopping point, not wanting them to arrive early at the falls and land in the middle of what was going on out there.  Unfortunately, that day, the entire country of Guinea was revamping their phone system – changing every number.  We tried and tried and finally reached a single missionary woman who lives in the same town.  She was able to drive up to deliver the news to hold off on coming in the morning until we knew more.  We were also unable to reach a young couple who lived there in town and worked closely with the young man who drowned, so Emily and I drove over to tell them in person.

The next morning brought still no news.  The body had not surfaced.  The town officials were organizing a search party.  It was clear that we could not go camping at our usual spot, so we made plans to join the other families at Tinka, an hour back down the road.  There are old mission house there –dating back to the 1940s, I think, and we sometimes go there for a mini vacation.  It is quite rustic – but had lots of places to pitch tents and housing for those who preferred a mattress.
We join the rest of the gang in the afternoon and spent the next few days hanging out together, playing games, taking day trips out to several other beautiful waterfalls, and generally enjoying being together.  The kids were disappointed about not being able to go to our favorite spot – but they felt worse for the family who lost their son!


Now for the rest of the story about David - Every day, people went out to search for the body, a process made harder by everyone’s fear of the demons in the water.  Soon a woman who practices witchcraft came out and began to offer sacrifices to the demons so that they would release the body.  She was drumming and chanting.  The church officials and David’s father in particular, were angry with her.  They told her that David was a Christ follower and that she was desecrating his memory by what she was doing.  Someone suggested that they drop a banana tree in the water where the body went down so that they could see where the water took it.  The church held vigils throughout the night. 

Two days passed.  One of the men camping with us works on the Mercy Ship and is a diver.  Through a lot of talking and lots of phone calls, he got permission to bring up his dive team to go dive for the body – hoping to give the family some closure.  Friday morning, the team took off from CKY with all of the equipment.  A few hours later, we got a phone call saying that the body had surfaced, so they were able to make contact with the dive team and turn them around.  Our friend helped the “coroner” pull the body from the water.  The doctor feels that David probably hit his head when he jumped in the water – making it impossible to fight when he got pulled under in the current.